Several weeks ago, a friend of over 30 years called while in NYC on business. I’d already known that he … More
Tag: adulting
Navigating Getting Older
“Oh, how I regret not having worn a bikini for the entire year I was twenty-six. If anyone young is … More
Pausing to #RaiseVibration
“Negativity, it can only affect you if you’re on the same frequency. Vibrate higher.” Anonymous #RaiseVibration is one of my … More
Things Remembered and Things Still to Learn
Nowadays, it feels like I need to write everything down as not to forget, so I was surprised I had … More
A Beautiful Saturday Morning in September…
It’s a beautiful Saturday morning in September, with bright blue skies starting to brighten New York City streets. I’m getting … More
Forever…🖤✊🏽
I didn’t have Black Barbies when I was growing up, because there weren’t any — I had Valerie from Josie … More
I Have To Do Better
In 2014, I had a pulmonary embolism. I’ve talked to my friends about that experience. The part I rarely talk … More
My Life (So Far) In Flowers
I must have flowers. Always and always. Claude Monet At my grandmother’s funeral, the floral arrangements were amazing – both … More
What’s Love Got To Do With It?
Why men great ‘til they gotta be great? Lizzo, Truth Hurts This isn’t what I wanted to write about this … More
First In Line
When you wash your hands, when you make a cup of coffee, when you’re waiting for the elevator — instead … More